Following a monumental victory over the Ammonites, a time meant for national celebration quickly deteriorates into a bitter and ungrateful internal conflict. The entire tribe of Ephraim bands together as a unified front [מצודת ציון, שטיינזלץ, מצודת דוד] and crosses the Jordan River, heading north toward the Gilead region where Jephthah resides [רש״י, מצודת דוד]. Their primary complaint is that they were completely excluded from the recent military campaign.
This anger stems from deep-seated political and tribal rivalries. The Gilead region belongs to the tribe of Manasseh, a brother tribe to Ephraim with neighboring borders. Because the people of Ephraim view themselves as the senior and more important tribe within the lineage of Joseph, they are outraged that the Gileadites appointed Jephthah as their leader and waged an independent war without their involvement [מלבי״ם, אברבנאל].
The reaction of the Ephraimites reveals a shocking lack of gratitude. Rather than thanking a leader who just risked his life to save the nation, they choose to attack him [רלב״ג, אברבנאל]. They direct their fury at Jephthah personally, convinced that their exclusion was not a decision made by the people of Gilead, but rather a result of Jephthah's own arrogance and his desire to claim all the glory of the victory for himself [אברבנאל].
The confrontation quickly escalates into a severe threat of violence, with the Ephraimites promising to burn Jephthah's house to the ground while he is still inside [מצודת דוד]. This blunt and immediate threat on his life explains why Jephthah does not attempt to calm them with soft words, as previous leaders had done in similar situations. The sheer violence of their approach leaves no room for diplomacy, ultimately paving the way for a bloody and tragic civil war [רלב״ג, אברבנאל].