משלי, פרק ט״ז, פסוק י״ט

The people we choose to surround ourselves with ultimately shape our character and our future, often leaving a far greater impact than any material success we might achieve. A clear choice stands between two very different paths in life: quietly living among simple people without financial gain, or joining the ranks of the arrogant who promise a share of great wealth. While this modest path is often associated with physical poverty, its true defining quality is humility [מנחת שי]. The primary approach among commentators is that it is far better to maintain a modest spirit and live among humble people than to divide great wealth [מצודת ציון] in the company of the arrogant and powerful.

The reasoning behind this choice comes down to the long-term effects of social influence. When a person connects with the arrogant, even if they earn a fortune together, they place themselves in serious moral and spiritual danger. Spending time in such circles makes it dangerously easy to absorb their habits, adopt their arrogance, and slowly drift away from serving God [מצודת דוד, עמנואל הרומי]. Moreover, any material success gained with arrogant people is temporary and unsafe. Because arrogance inevitably leads to downfall, a person on this path will eventually lose not only their newfound wealth but also their own sense of self [רלב״ג, אלשיך].

On the other hand, choosing to stand with the humble carries a profound blessing, even if it brings no immediate wealth and requires a life of quiet submission. In the company of humble people, a person learns wisdom and good character, remains steady in serving God, and draws closer to true goodness [עמנואל הרומי]. Beyond these spiritual benefits, a bright and successful future is assured for those who walk this quiet path. They may not be wealthy now, but they are destined to rise and eventually experience the great good that is securely stored away for them [אלשיך].