דברים, פרק כ״ב, פסוק כ׳

פרשת כי תצא

Deuteronomy 22:20Sefaria

וְאִם־אֱמֶ֣ת הָיָ֔ה הַדָּבָ֖ר הַזֶּ֑ה לֹא־נִמְצְא֥וּ בְתוּלִ֖ים לַֽנַּעֲרָֽ׃

The legal process reaches a critical point when a husband's severe accusations against his young wife are found to be true. At this stage, the court is obligated to investigate the case deeply and examine the evidence to determine if she is indeed forbidden to her husband [העמק דבר]. The primary approach among commentators is that the confirmation of these charges does not merely refer to a physical absence of virginity. Rather, it means it has been proven beyond all doubt that the young woman acted unfaithfully and betrayed her husband specifically during the betrothal period. This is the time between the initial legal engagement and the final marriage, while she was still living in her father's house [רש"י, שטיינזלץ, ביאור יש"ר, בכור שור].

Limiting the severe consequences to this specific timeframe is necessary because the law does not impose the death penalty for acts an unmarried woman engages in before she is betrothed. The extreme severity of her action stems from the fact that she was already legally bound to her husband. By acting unfaithfully, she committed a disgraceful offense, taking advantage of her time remaining in her father's home [אם למקרא].

Establishing the truth of the matter requires a strict and careful legal procedure. Commentators agree that a simple physical absence of virginity is never enough for a conviction, as this could easily result from a physical accident. Therefore, a conviction strictly requires the presence of two witnesses who directly observed the unfaithful act. Furthermore, the young woman must have received a prior warning before the act, just as the law requires for any other capital offense [רש"י, גור אריה, שפתי חכמים, הכתב והקבלה].

The failure to find evidence of her virginity is understood by some commentators as a legal battle between conflicting testimonies. According to this view, the husband brings witnesses who testify to her unfaithfulness, which applies regardless of the specific nature of the intimate act [מלבי"ם]. In response, the father attempts to defend his daughter by presenting his own witnesses to discredit those of the husband and prove their testimony false. The ultimate truth is established, and the lack of virginity legally confirmed, either when the father fails to produce these discrediting witnesses, or when the husband brings additional witnesses who completely refute the father's defense [מזרחי, רלב"ג, רש"ר הירש].

Conversely, others disagree with the need to introduce complex legal conditions that are not explicitly stated. They maintain that the confirmation of the husband's claim simply refers to the spoken testimony of the initial witnesses. If their account of the young woman's betrayal is found to be reliable and accurate by the court, she is deemed guilty and her fate is sealed [הכתב והקבלה].

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