The successful recovery of the captives and stolen property from Amalek was ultimately a result of David’s personal merit. The entire rescue served as a reward for his profound humility. Just moments before the victory, his own men were so bitter with grief over their losses that they spoke of stoning him, yet David absorbed their anger in complete silence [חומת אנך].
The sequence of the rescue effort reveals David's remarkable character. The recovery of the women, children, and belongings of his men was completed first [מלבי"ם, ביאור שטיינזלץ, חומת אנך]. Only afterward did David rescue his own two wives. This priority highlights his deep righteousness, fear of God, and love for his followers, as he ensured his men's families were completely secure before tending to his own. Alternatively, another perspective suggests that the rescue of David's wives is viewed as a separate, culminating event not to indicate a chronological order, but rather to emphasize their personal significance and elevated status [חומת אנך].
Beyond the sequence of events, there was a distinct difference in how the rescue was carried out. While David directed his forces to recover the rest of the people and their belongings, he took it upon himself to rescue his two wives personally, with his own hands [מלבי"ם].