Jerusalem stands in absolute isolation, completely abandoned without a single soul to offer comfort or share in her sorrow. This profound loneliness and ruin are not a matter of chance. They are the direct consequence of her own choices, a disaster she brought upon herself the moment she decided to abandon God [רד״ק].
The depth of this disconnection unfolds in a tragic progression of abandonment. First, there is a complete absence of basic mercy. There is no one left to feel compassion or step in to prevent the city's ultimate destruction [מצודת ציון, מלבי״ם].
Following the ruin, there is a noticeable lack of shared sorrow [שטיינזלץ] and lamentation [רש״י]. In times of grief, people typically travel from their own homes to visit the bereaved [מצודת ציון, רד״ק], often shaking their heads in a traditional display of empathy and comfort [מצודת דוד]. Yet, for Jerusalem, no one makes the journey to mourn with her.
Finally, the isolation reaches its peak in everyday life. No one will even bother to take a slight detour from their regular travel routes just to inquire about the city's well-being [רש״י, מצודת דוד]. These stages reveal a complete and devastating rejection. In her critical moment of need, no one steps forward to save her. When tragedy strikes, her closest allies do not arrive to comfort her. Ultimately, as time goes on, even passing strangers refuse to step off their path to simply ask how she is doing [מלבי״ם].