Job experiences a profound social and personal collapse, where a deep sense of alienation invades his most intimate spaces. The isolation he feels does not just come from his friends or family members, but extends to the very dependents who live under his roof. The residents of his home and his maidservants—those who are expected to be close and loyal—now look at him as though he does not belong [מצודת דוד, שטיינזלץ].
The depth of this rejection is understood through the subtle differences in how people treat an outsider compared to a complete alien. One approach sees this as a severe escalation of Job's isolation. In this view, an ordinary stranger might simply be someone outside the immediate household, whereas an alien is someone from a distant land whose identity and language are entirely unrecognizable. Job grieves that his condition has deteriorated so much; he wishes his household would merely treat him as an outsider, but instead, they view him as a total alien whom they have never met [מלבי״ם, מצודת דוד].
Conversely, another perspective offers a psychological explanation that slightly softens the shock of his servants' behavior. Even during the height of his success, there was a natural boundary between Job and his workers, as they shared no ties of blood or family. Because this foundational distance was always present, Job finds a certain grim logic in their current reaction. Now that he has lost his wealth and standing, it is no surprise that this pre-existing gap has widened, leading them to treat him as a complete stranger [אלשיך].